Whose Summer Do You Plan First—Yours or Your Child’s?
As parents, we often prioritize our children’s needs above our own, ensuring they have the best experiences while putting our plans on the back burner. But here’s a reality check: Being a great parent also means being a great role model. Showing your children that your relationship with your spouse, significant other, or even yourself is worth nurturing teaches them invaluable life lessons about balance and self-care.
🚫 REMOVE THE GUILT!
Summer can bring different types of guilt for parents:
👩💼 Working parents may feel bad for missing out on lazy beach days, Pinterest-worthy crafts, and midweek playdates.
🏡 Stay-at-home parents may struggle with kids sleeping until noon, constant complaints of boredom, and a house that looks like a tornado hit by Week 2.
With three months of summer, a little planning can turn 25% of the year into an enriching and enjoyable experience for both you and your children. Break free from the Summer Parent Trap with these five key strategies:
🧭 1. Perspective: It’s All Good!
No matter what your summer looks like, it’s already better than what many have experienced in the past. If your family is healthy, your home is safe, and there’s love in the household—you’re doing great!
🎓 2. Embrace Teachable Moments
Summer is the perfect time for learning beyond the classroom:
✅ New skills – sports, arts, cooking, coding, music 🎶
✅ Time management – how to structure free time 🕒
✅ Responsibility & giving back – volunteering, chores, independence 🤝
✅ Teamwork – family projects, summer programs, camp experiences 🏕️
A mix of structured programs and free exploration will create a balanced and fulfilling summer.
🎯 3. Set Intentions (Don’t Just Fall into Summer!)
Many frustrations come from lack of planning. Instead of "falling into summer" (you know who you are! 😆), take a moment to:
📌 Decide what YOU want from summer (relaxation, travel, couple time, career growth, etc.).
📌 Align with your partner on priorities.
📌 Plan your child’s summer (camps, activities, downtime).
📌 Give kids choices—but pre-select options you’re happy with.
👉 Example: “Would you like to do a sports camp or an art camp?” (Either way, it’s a win!)
⏳ 4. Prioritize Quality Time (Not Just Quantity)
Summer is a great time to slow down and enjoy short but meaningful moments with your kids.
🌅 Unplug & be present—ditch distractions for a bit.
🎲 Do quick, fun activities—a card game, an ice cream run, a sunset walk.
💬 Avoid "check-in" mode—enjoy the time without quizzing them on their progress.
Remember: It’s okay to just "be" together without an agenda.
🎭 5. Vary Your Summer Plans
Summer doesn’t have to look one way. It can be:
🏖️ A family vacation (even a short road trip!)
🏕️ Sleepaway camp or teen programs
🏡 Lazy days at home with no structured plans
Mix it up! The best summers have a little of everything.
The Countdown Is On! ⏳
With 59 days left until summer in South Florida, don’t just fall into it—plan ahead and make it amazing! Whether it’s a well-structured schedule or a go-with-the-flow mindset, a little intention goes a long way.
☀️ This summer, balance fun, learning, and relaxation—for BOTH you and your children!