Helping Teens Make the Most of Their Summers
Over the past two decades, I’ve not only guided my own kids to successful independence (phew!) but also helped countless families navigate meaningful summer experiences for their teens. However, I was surprised when a previous client said, “I didn’t know you helped teenagers too!”
So let me say it loud and clear: I specialize in helping teenagers use their summers wisely, effectively, and—most importantly—enjoyably. And yes, I speak fluent “teen”!
Why Summer Independence Matters
There’s nothing more valuable for a high schooler than stepping out of their comfort zone and learning to live independently before heading off to college. College is more than just academics—it’s about balancing:
✔️ Freedom of choice
✔️ Time management
✔️ Social life
✔️ Dorm living
✔️ Dining hall meals
✔️ Extracurricular activities
Key word: INDEPENDENT!
As parents, you won’t be there to direct their every move, make their choices, or oversee their actions. You simply pay the bill—and in many cases, you might not even know how they’re doing in school!
Which Type of Teen Do You Have?
Every teenager is different, but most fall into one of these four categories:
1️⃣ THE PROFESSIONAL – This teen has clear goals, knows what they want, and is self-motivated. They may have questions and challenges, but they are focused and driven.
2️⃣ THE ENTREPRENEUR – This teen wants to be successful but hasn’t yet figured out their path. They may lean toward science/math, social studies/language, or a mix of both, but they need guidance in finding direction.
3️⃣ THE “TWEEN” – This teen is still caught in childhood and isn’t thinking much about the future. They follow their friends, go along with the pack, and aren’t particularly self-directed yet.
4️⃣ THE CONTRARIAN – This teen is pushing back on everything. If this is your child, you’re not alone—and there are ways to help them transition into one of the first three categories.
No matter where your teen falls on this spectrum, there are incredible ways to help them grow, expand their horizons, and gain independence during the summer months. With 13 weeks of summer—that’s 25% of their year—there’s no time to waste!
Summer Programs That Make a Difference
There are a variety of structured programs that provide teens with meaningful experiences while also preparing them for the future:
🎓 PRE-COLLEGE PROGRAMS – Live and learn on college campuses in the U.S. or abroad, earning credits, taking enrichment classes, preparing for the SATs, and practicing independent time management.
🌍 COMMUNITY SERVICE PROGRAMS – Engage in service opportunities that can be started during the school year and fully immersed in during the summer, both in the U.S. and abroad.
🗣️ LANGUAGE & CULTURAL IMMERSION – Experience different cultures and languages in hands-on, real-world settings—an invaluable asset in today’s global economy.
🎭 SPECIALTY PROGRAMS – Dive deep into passions like film, sports, writing, debate, robotics, engineering, medicine, marketing, public policy, and more.
🏫 COLLEGE TOURS – Visit colleges of interest while bonding with peers, gaining firsthand insight into different campus environments.
💼 INTERNSHIP PROGRAMS – Get real-world experience working with companies in fields of interest, while still enjoying a social, structured summer environment.
The Goal: Independence & Readiness for College
The ultimate goal of summer development is to help your teen grow into a confident, self-sufficient young adult. If you start this process early (as early as 9th grade!), you greatly increase their chances of being fully prepared for the freedom and responsibility of college.
Every teen is different. Every household, budget, and summer is different. But the right opportunities are out there!
If you’d like personalized advice on the best summer options for your teen, contact me for free guidance. My mission goes beyond just helping teens—I’m passionate about positively shaping future generations (and yes, even bringing more peace and tranquility to your home!).
Let’s make this summer one that truly transforms your teen’s future!