The Countdown to Camp: What Not to Say to Your Child
With just 59 days until most camps begin, excitement—and nerves—are setting in. Kids are eagerly anticipating the adventure ahead while parents scramble to gather supplies: duffle bags are purchased, permanent markers are ready to label EVERYTHING, and one room has officially become Camp Packing Headquarters.
For first-time campers, the reality of spending the summer away can be both thrilling and overwhelming—not just for them, but for the entire family. So, how do you manage everyone's jitters while keeping your own emotions in check?
First Rule: Stay Positive!
You’ve made an amazing decision in sending your child to camp. However, your words can have a huge impact on their mindset before they leave. Here are five things you should absolutely avoid saying in the weeks leading up to camp:
🚫 5. "I’ll finally have some peace and quiet around here."
Even if you're secretly celebrating the break, don’t say this aloud. Kids might interpret this as, “They want to get rid of me,” which can lead to unnecessary anxiety or homesickness.
🚫 4. "Now I’ll be able to spend more time with your sibling!"
One-on-one time with your other child is great, but announcing it can create fear of missing out for the camper and fuel sibling rivalry. Instead, keep the focus on their exciting camp experience.
🚫 3. "I’m going to miss you so much, I don’t know what I’ll do!"
Of course, you’ll miss them! But instead of making them feel guilty or anxious, shift the focus:
✔️ Better Alternative: "I’m going to miss you, but I am SO excited for everything you’ll experience at camp! I can’t wait to hear all your stories."
🚫 2. "If you don’t like it, I’ll come pick you up."
⚠️ Biggest mistake ever! ⚠️
Homesickness happens—it’s part of the growth experience. If you give your child an escape plan, they won’t fully immerse themselves. Instead, teach resilience and problem-solving before they leave.
🚫 1. "I can’t wait to go to the beach, Europe, or have fun without you!"
You may want to reassure them that you’ll be busy, but listing fun activities they’ll miss out on only fuels their doubts. Keep the focus on their adventure!
So, What Should You Say?
If they ask what you’ll be doing while they’re away, there’s only one answer:
🧹 "Cleaning closets!" 🏡
This way, your child heads off to camp feeling excited, confident, and ready for an unforgettable summer! 🌞🏕️🚀